"He's a chameleon. A mirror. He becomes whatever is required of him. Not
a conscious process, I don't think. Piotr expects a loyal retainer, and
Bothari plays the part, deadpan as you please. Vorrutyer wanted a monster,
and Bothari became his torturer. And victim. I demanded a good soldier,
and he became one for me. You... you are the only person I know who looks
at Bothari and sees a hero. So he becomes one for you. He clings to you
because you create him a greater man than he ever dreamed of being."
"Barrayar", Lois McMaster Bujold